For 33 years Tetsu and I have slept on futon. When we were first married we ordered a double futon because isn't that what couples sleep on? A double bed, a double futon. WRONG! The double futon was way too heavy to pick up and hang over the veranda ledge every morning for airing let alone manuevering it into the futon closet. I don't remember when we gave up on double futon but the next time we needed to replace it, we bought two single futons. Those have served us well.
Basically Japanese like futon for the reason that they CAN be hung outside for airing. The sunshine sanitizes and puffs up the inner cotton stuffing. A freshly aired futon seems fluffier and warmer. But airing futon means tossing it over the ledge when the sun hits the veranda and bringing it back inside a few hours later, and these days working women just aren't at home all day to care for futon as they should. (I know I'M not. So my futon didn't get aired much.)
Another reason futon are nice is because they can be folded up and placed in the futon cupboard leaving the room free for other uses. When we lived in apartments, the living room also served as a bedroom and every morning I would put the futon back in the cupboard and set up a low table for eating breakfast. Once we moved to our home however, we had enough room so that the futon was up and away in the bedroom and could be left during the day.
But our bedrooms don't have tatami-mats and laying futon out on carpet is a bit strange. Still... for the 20 years that we've lived here, sleeping on futon has been a way of life for us. The only time it really got put away was when I was basting a quilt and needed an open area.
In recent years I've noticed more back aches, and that year with the injured knee I really wanted to change to a bed. Getting up off of the floor every morning takes a bit more grunting and pushing. In the middle of the night I stumble over the blankets that get tangled by the futon-side. This year Tetsu suggested we buy beds. FINALLY!!
Tetsu and I went to numerous furniture shops and tried out bed mattresses. I was adamant on that point. I wanted to try out the mattress, not just order online. (Of course I had no idea what I wanted in a mattress but that was beside the point). Did we want a double bed?
We "tried out" mattresses by lying side by side in the stores.
"You are way too close for comfort. A double bed is out."
We tried out a queensize bed but decided that it would be too hard get sheets in Japan (that may be true only in my countryside town.) And finally we decided on two twin-size beds. We sprung for two good mattresses and cheap bed frames...
Ta-Da!!!! I love them (it)! What a dream to sit on the side of a bed and stand up rather than push yourself up from the floor! I love the piney bed frames, Tetsu's choice. They fit our rustic house so much better than the elaborate expensive headboards that were available. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE that I can put a quilt on my bed and it looks like a QUILT!!! As quilts go, I think this is the largest quilt I've ever made and it barely fits, but since these are twin beds I'm sure I'll have two quilts (maybe unmatching) that I can use for these beds.
The cats adapted easily to sleeping on the beds with us last night.
And Tetsu?
"Maybe I'll get used to them over time."