Yuma-kun came over last night and we sewed rather than studied. For one, there was no room in the house that was conducive to studying, for another, Yuma-kun has been asking and asking to sew rather than study, for ANOTHER the studying that we did do the last two weeks resulted in a lot of frustration for both of us, and finally, I had a headache last night so rather than struggle with him I gave in to the idea of sewing. He was overjoyed when I announced my decision.

While I was in the States, Mary from California contacted me and offered to send YUMA-KUN some fun fabric... so that he can start a stash of his own! How neat is that!!! She knew from reading one of my posts that Yuma-kun likes fish fabric so a few days later she sent a huge envelope of colorful fish fabrics and insect fabrics and cheerful beach prints. I brought it home and when I finally saw Yuma-kun at the beginning of September, handed him the bulging envelope and the card from Mary. He was in awe that someone he didn't know would think of him and send him things. Right away he wanted to sew something to send to Mary.
Well, he IS supposed to be coming to my house for English, not sewing, but I suggested he write Mary a thank you letter (in Japanese) and that the next week I would translate it for him and he could copy the letter in his own handwriting. Great idea and he was excited to go out and buy Mary a special thank you card too. (In fact he was harping at his grandmother when she came to pick him up saying that they had to go to the store right THEN, at 8:30 at night, to buy a card.)
The next week Yuma-kun came with his card, but no thank you letter.
"Where's your letter?"
"It's all in my head. I know what I want to say."
Sigh.
"No, I want you to write it out first and then I will translate it and while I'm translating I want you to write your Japanese letter out nicely again. Mary will be interested in seeing your Japanese handwriting too."
Well, Yuma-kun can't concentrate worth beans and as long as I and any of the cats were in the room, he was chattering away, so I left him to write his letter and went to the kitchen to cook dinner. Oh and he had another great idea that he wanted to send Mary some of his family's home grown rice and vegetables too.
"No. I don't think the international laws allow produce to be sent to foreign countries. Your letter alone will make Mary happy."
Yuma-kun's grandmother also asked me after class if they could send some rice as a thank you gift but I dissuaded her too.
By the third English session, the letter was written, it had been copied over in Yuma-kun's best handwriting in Japanese and the last step was to copy the English translation. THAT took a bit of work too because of Yuma-kun's lack of concentration... He was all over the page with different combinations of words and sentences. This was not an English class, it was a letter by letter surveillance session... The thank you letter finally got written, though not very beautifully. I wasn't going to make him do it all again though... Mary will have to understand.
In the meantime Yuma-kun had made an origami crane to include in his card and finally the whole thing was ready for mailing. It took three weeks! Sorry for the delay Mary!
So last night the two of us spent the English hour up in my sewing room making a drawstring bag from one of the pretty fish fabrics. Again and again I am impressed at how quickly Yuma-kun catches on to things and realizes ahead of time what the pitfalls might be. English will probably never be his forte and he gets down about how little he can do or understand (his reading and writing is appalling... and what do the schools test? Reading and writing) but he has so many other great skills and interests. It is so easy to praise him when we are NOT doing English. I wonder about how much longer he will be coming to me...
Yuma-kun is 13 now. He no longer smiles for the camera anymore.
"Smile! Show me you're happy!"
And he gives me a twitch of his lips. He IS extremely happy about his fish fabric and stash though. Thank you Mary!
(And NO, please don't anyone else think to send Yuma-kun fabric! I don't think I could stand going through the thank you letter process again! Not to mention thinking up new projects for him!)