This week, Julie, Carin, Cynthia and I had a Zoom chat get together and we talked for about an hour, showed the Log Cabin challenges that we'd given ourselves a year and a half ago and shared what we've been working on recently. It took a bit of computer coaching by Cynthia to get a couple of us at a group gathering but we all managed to sign in and we had a wonderful time!
One of the things we talked about was the giving of quilts to people. One of us had a quilt that she was ready to give to somebody but questioned if the recipient actually wanted a quilt as a previous one hadn't ever been used... Another of us regularly makes quilts for people but this year she was having a bit of frustration meeting the requests of the recipient... Another of us felt that though the recipient might not react all that enthusiastically, there were people or generations or friends along the way that would see its worth and treasure it. I'm letting you guess who was who in this conversation.
Yesterday M-san and I were also talking about giving quilts to someone. She is thinking about making a quilt for her aunt but she didn't know if her aunt wanted a big quilt or a wall quilt, nor what colors she really liked. I pointed out that the aunt would love to receive ANYTHING that M-san made for her and she needn't worry about the recipient's preferences. (I guess you know with whose opinion I stand on the above paragraph.)
I have made SO many quilts and many if not most of them, have been given away. I'm not really sure who appreciated them and who thought they were just space grabbers in their closets. Everyone has always expressed their gratitude... a few friends have the quilt out on their sofa or on their bed, but the majority of my quilts I never run across again. They probably live in a closet at best and may have been donated away at worst. I can't be holding onto a gift in my heart and resenting that it isn't loved. I enjoyed making it. Marlene has a couple of my quilts out and I'm thrilled to find them getting tired looking and worn.
I know that Leiya treasures my quilts because she has so many of them on display in her rooms and their colors in the background when I talk with Leiya on Facetime always makes me feel warm and loved.
Takumi too seems to keep my quilts up on their walls or on the bed and I wonder if Julieta would really like to decorate her house in a different style... But it makes me happy to see the quilts getting used and I love my son-in-law and daughter-in-law for letting me into their homes.
I'm not too confident about making a quilt to someone's specifications though... I remember once someone asked me to make them a rainbow themed quilt and I chose rainbow colors sweeping over the quilt top. They seemed surprised when I gifted it to them and I got an inkling that they had maybe been thinking of a simple rainbow arch and I'd made this abstract color design... Missed the mark there and I don't know what happened to that quilt.
I guess I'd much prefer making a surprise quilt for someone and when they get it they are as happy with the surprise as they are with the gift. I don't even have to know the person well. I've made a quilt for Tony's mother whom I've met twice, and for Julieta's mother whom I've never even met (and that quilt hasn't even been delivered yet). I have no idea what they really wanted or what colors they like and they are welcome to give the quilt away if it doesn't suit them. I enjoyed doing the work, I thought about them from afar as I sewed and (maybe selfishly) I'm satisfied.
Rambling thoughts... But getting back to M-san.
She JUST finished making a quilt for her mother. I suggested a McKenna quilt that I had done years ago and I helped her follow the directions and gave her advice on colors etc.
Remember this mumble-jumble?
This is what it turned into!
That first picture was taken in the middle of September but the box is pretty full so I think M-san must have started making flowers and vegetables from August. We thought this was a great quilt for her mother because their family is a farming family and her mother raises vegetables for the local markets and she specializes in edamame! The original pattern didn't have edamame of course (though it did sport some string beans) so I had M-san design her own edamame to add for her mother.
Edamame on the front...
...and edamame on the label too!
For awhile M-san was quilting this on my sewing machine but after a needle broke she felt responsible (though I told her I had packages of needles ready because broken needles were so frequent) and took this home to quilt on her own machine. She got it done though she says that now she is experiencing trauma from trying to use mono-filiment thread that kept breaking. Don't we all!
And M-san looking very pleased with her creation! She said her father was so happy he went out and bought a frame for it! Great! That's one quilt that will be loved and admired and appreciated for ever on after!