The computer technician and I had decided that the system needed a complete recovery and I brought in the recovery disk that came with my computer. Together we went over what needed to be saved from the computer, removed and then replaced. And yesterday my computer came home looking much like it did before it left.
But not completely...
Has anyone ever done this complete computer recovery? I understand now what the technician did and what it means when the computer is returned to its "original" state.
Yes, everything is there but there are little things that I didn't realize I used and depended upon. Let's see... There was a photo software I used but was gone (but which could be "easily" downloaded again. Easily if you know what you are doing and aren't afraid of the windows that pop up asking "do you really want to open up your computer to security threats?" I don't know... I guess I do if I want to use this software again...)
Oh, lots of other things.... I could no longer figure out how to write in Japanese on my computer which is a must for writing my crosswalk guard log daily, not to mention doing any transactions in the Japanese Internet world. Ay-yai-yai! The passwords I needed to get into stuff again that used to be automatic! Where is my password book?
I panicked and sent an e-mail to Takumi (after I figured out how to get the g-mail icon back in its original place.)
In the meantime... Question to Firefox... wait no Firefox. Install Firefox. Question to Firefox... How do I get my language icon on that something or other bar? Toolbar? Taskbar? I was very proud of myself for getting the computer back to being able to use both languages. A simple task for someone who knows what they are doing but an hour and a half work and a mounting headache for me.
After awhile Takumi contacted me, got into my computer and set a few things right for me again. Such a good son! I was so immersed in my computer set up I didn't even ask him about his own days.
Which brings me to a new realization.
A few days earlier Tetsu and I had talked with Leiya, and she let us know she had had a major problem... that she didn't tell us about and that she solved herself a month or so ago. It was a problem that would have set her parents nailbiting, very likely we would have sent emergency support, called constantly for updates, I might have even considered flying to her side. Instead, she dropped the bomb on us while she was eating Cup-A-Noodles,
"And everything is fine now so there are no worries."
We were speechless. WHY hadn't she called us? WHY hadn't she told us earlier?
"I didn't want to worry you. I wanted to get it all worked out before I let you know."
And it turns out that Takumi had been told.
Tetsu and I realize that the positions have been reversed and that our children are PROTECTING US these days!
When did they become such adults? When did I become the one to be protected? I remember the first time I started paying for things like lunch out with my mother. I remember becoming the driver on our outings. I also remember deciding not to tell my mother some things "until they were worked out" because I didn't want her to worry.
So now I run to my son for help at a drop of the hat and my daughter protects me from her painful lessons.
I am very proud of the both... and a little sad at the reversal of our roles...
















