Last night Tetsu came home with a bouquet of flowers. It was his last day at his office where he has been for the past 10 years. This is not retirement but rather a change of workplace... From today, he will be working for the same organization in a different facility in a different city. This morning Tetsu left earlier than usual to start new responsibilities.
When I met Tetsu he was 23 years old and had just moved back to the city where I had arrived to start a two year missionary commitment. His father had died the month before and through a brother-in-law connection he landed a job with a loan company. Though he'd studied something else in college and had planned to go into a different line of work, he returned to live with his mother and work in an office spending his days moving currency and numbers. It was a good job in a nationwide company but Japan's social climate frowned on such companies labeling them as loan sharks. People's eyebrows rose when Tetsu mentioned where he worked.
A couple of years after meeting Tetsu and I married and according to company policy Tetsu was transferred to another office in another prefecture. We lived there a year and then Tetsu was transferred again. And that was how we could see our life going... A year here, a year there... Tetsu moving up in the company, financially secure. It was all fine and dandy.
At the second transfer Tetsu was actually the office manager and a humorous (nowadays) incident that occurred was that one night the loan office was robbed! The office girl arrived first in the morning and found the office safe drilled open and she called Tetsu and the police. What a hullabaloo followed! Tetsu was panicked. Quite a lot of money had been taken from the safe. The robber had broken in through an alley window and drilled a hole through the safe door. Tetsu was on the phone to Tokyo headquarters, the police were questioning everybody. Just when the reports were finishing up and the police were ready to call it a day, the office girl went to the compact kitchen to serve tea and when she opened the tea cupboard a whole load of PANTIES fell out of the cupboard! The police were jumping around all over again! A major robbery and a pantie thief on the loose! The poor single young man who worked in the office was questioned mercilessly... But he had nothing to do with it... Months later the robber was arrested... yes, a pantie thief who when he'd broken into the loan company's safe had left his pantie haul for the more profitable contents of the safe.
A few months of living in this prefecture also included the birth of our first daughter... and two months later her death. Tetsu and I were both devastated and I especially wanted to get away from the memories of her weeks in the hospital and numerous surgeries. Tetsu requested another transfer and we moved to a larger city with Tetsu as office manager again.
A couple of months after Takumi was born, Tetsu's was scheduled for ANOTHER transfer. By now all this transfer business was getting tiresome. It had been fun with just the two of us... seeing new places, meeting new people but I really didn't want to uproot a family every year. And both Tetsu and I could look at the other people in the company and see where the future led. The husband would move up in his work... once the children started school the wife would be unwilling to move them and the husband would be transferred to a new city or prefecture leaving his family very well financially cared for but only getting to see them three or four times a year. There is a name for this custom of having the husband transfer away and leaving his family... tanshinnfunin and I had always said there was no way that was going to happen to my family. What was the point of marrying Tetsu and living in Japan if he was going to be working in some other prefecture?
YET... When Takumi was born I pleasantly said,
"Good-bye Tetsu. I'm not planning to go live in Tokyo with a baby (no offence Julie) you can go by yourself."
And Tetsu made the wise decision to quit his job after three months of life in Tokyo alone. The three of us took a month's vacation to California and then Tetsu was without a job.
Back in Japan Tetsu didn't try very hard to FIND a job. He had unemployment insurance coming in for 6 months and he claimed it would be a shame to waste it and so he did a bit of studying and volunteering... he had an interest in social work. A lot of days were just wasted playing arcade games and I taught some English and took care of Takumi. And went bald! Not my whole head but spots here and there.
"Stress." was the doctor's pronouncement and Tetsu took it to heart that he and his unemployment were the cause. He found a job with a hotel and worked there for 6 months. He was hired by a convenience store company to do lunch box development (I never understood WHY he took THAT job as he has always stayed as far from the kitchen as he can).
Finally he found a job in the city near us now with a new convalescent home was being built. Convalescence care was a new business in Japan and Tetsu was proud to be involved with the residents' daily lives and also be responsible for the office and accounting. Leiya was born and we bought a house not too far from Tetsu's office... AND THEN HE QUIT!
Tetsu has always had his ideals about how convalescent care should be given... how money should and should not be spent... and they didn't mesh well with what the owner was doing. Tetsu would tell you that he refused to be part of any shadiness. Well, there he was without a job again and we had a new home and two children.
But friends were very good to Tetsu and through them he soon found another job with a different convalescent facility and though the drive was over an hour away, he headed that office for many years. After many fulfilling years there he also asked to be transferred to a smaller facility and spent one year doing on-hand convalescent care. Then 10 years ago he was hired by the organization he has been with until now and again, that has been complete office and computer work.
This year Tetsu turned 62. He has three more years in the field before retirement. He really wanted to take a smaller role... work closer with the elderly... have less responsibility. Thus, the change in workplace.
The day before yesterday I sent Tetsu to work with a box-ful of homemade cookies for the staff at his old place. And they sent Tetsu off with the lovely bouquet of flowers... and three cartons of eggs of all things... and a sack of rice! I thought those interesting "retirement" presents. Well Tetsu isn't retiring and anyway I have a feeling he'll be going back and forth between the two offices for awhile getting glitches worked out and explaining how he's used software etc. I didn't do anything special to "celebrate" (except for my cookies) but Tetsu IS starting a final new leaf to his working years...
I don't know how many times I've heard Tetsu say (and the kids can attest to this because they have heard it too) that every job he's had in his life has been of value and use to what he does now. The years working with money... the months working with hotel guests... even the nutrition and food preparation at the convenience store company has stood him in good stead with convalescence care... He is really saying that God uses every experience for the building up to today... and for tomorrow too.
ごくろうさまでした
Gokurousama deshita. "Thank you for all your hard work."
