The other day Takumi's friend from elementary school and Jr. high school called to say that he was going to the California for a week and staying with Takumi and did I want him to take anything. He later stopped over to take some things I'd pulled together.
So, what did I send to my son? Not much.
I was never much of a cook and my children probably don't have any memories of Mom's Home Cooking, so I didn't send cookies or such.
I didn't have a quilt ready and Takumi doesn't seem too interested in my quilts anyway, so I didn't send a quilt.
I went to the grocery store and found dried foods for one person meals which I am sure is going to be very boring and may never get used.
Comics?
Ah, my hated comics. When the children were little, Tetsu used to buy them complete sets of comic books. Judo comics, super hero comics, sports comics, history comics, mystery comics. And SETS means that there were 30, 40 books to a set! (Granted Tetsu always bought the comics at the used book stores but still, that's a lot of money spent on comics!) As I did not read Japanese, comics rated very low on my list of necessities. And I would have much rather the kids have used the library for 'more worthy' reading material...
By the way, I regret my attitude about comics as being 'unworthy' reading material these days. I have finally realized that there is a huge Japanese comic and animation culture that is considered an art and an education... still I have never gotten into the comic culture myself.
So the number of comics just increased in my house and when Takumi left for the States I asked him to do something about them all. He proceeded to dump a couple hundred comics into big plastic storage containers and what wouldn't fit there, he stacked along the edges of the closet wall making excellent insulation material but causing the use of the closet to be hindered. And Leiya had her own beloved sets of comics in HER closet. A few years ago I asked both children if I could get rid of their comics. (Good glory, both kids have lived in the States 9 years or more now.) Both children responded separately that they would like me to keep the comics for awhile longer... Sigh.
So I decided to clean out Takumi's closet and send along a few comics with his friend. GYAHHH! Cleaning out the closet took me all morning!!! I brought out ALL comics, I sorted and put them in some order, I put some of the sets in their special comic boxes (which cost a lot in themselves!) And I invited Takumi's friend to come upstairs and choose a few comics to carry to Takumi in California. I have no idea if Takumi is interested in READING his old comics or not, or if he just wants them in our house to remind him that his treasures are safe in Japan. Maybe I'll transport a few comics at a time to Takumi's apartment in California and let HIM figure out what to do with them!
In the meantime... Here is a SMALL corner of Takumi's comics. A few sets got new homes in the expensive comic boxes and a couple hundred more got dumped back into the big plastic storage containers. Toi finds the comic carpeting very colorful and interesting.