John joined our family at the end of October and he certainly wasn't the dog we were expecting to have in our old age! We pictured long walks in the neighborhood and long drives with our doggie in the car. We thought we were finally going to be able to take our dog with us when we went shopping in the home goods stores... We pictured this new small dog sitting on our laps and being carried around the house like a furry waist pouch being introduced to guests.
John has been NOTHING like our expectations! He growled (growls) and snapped (snaps) and lunged (occasionally lunges). He did not like his new home at all!
Somewhere along the line our vet got word that we were having major problems with John and since that time Maya-sensei has been coming to our house regularly. She works with John a bit, gives advice and suggestions, and in return we spend the hour talking about John and her work in English giving her a chance to use her English skills.
I also decided to keep a "John's Life Journal" so that I could report accurately on how we were fairing and I print it out so that Maya-sensei can read some English and get some new vocabulary... John's life isn't very interesting though so I am running out of new vocabulary for Maya-sensei...
It is interesting to look back and see how I felt about John when he first arrived and how I write about him these days.
Saturday Dec. 8
6:00 - no walk. John was moody and growling. He seemed happy when we got home and THEN he wanted a walk. Nope! After breakfast.
Tanya - walk with John at 8:00. No problem.
Tanya - 12:30 walk. Tanya and Tetsu - 5:30 BAD!!! I took John out of his circle and passed him to Tetsu. In the genkan I reached down to pick up some gloves and John turned and attacked and kept lunging at me. Tetsu took him for a walk. John was in a bad mood and growling all evening.
But then, this week, three months later there is this entry.
February 22, Friday
I was out for most of the day and Tetsu and John spent the day together. Tetsu said he took John to a wide open field and since it was a very warm sunny day, the two of them sat on the grass (and then napped on the grass) and John wandered around but didn’t go far away. In the end John and Tetsu laid out on the grass and enjoyed the good weather.
Has John changed or have we only become better at reading him? He still barks incessantly when someone is visiting and this raises my stress levels as I am trying to teach and have conversations with people through all the noise. Maya-sensei suggested we put him in the bathroom farther away from the guests and to ignore him while he barks. John HAD learned to stop barking when he lived at her clinic for nearly a year so I guess he CAN learn.
Yesterday's entry.
February 27, Wednesday
John stayed quiet in his circle for most of the day except for his morning, noon and evening walk. (Twenty minutes each). He is very cute walking briskly beside me and he looks at me often while we walk (probably expecting treats). He gets treats when he pees immediately after coming outside, he gets treats whenever a car goes by and he doesn’t jump or bark at it. He still growls when getting put back in the circle but today he didn’t lunge or try to bite…
I enjoy walking with John. Tetsu thinks he is very cute. If John starts growling we just flip the quilt over his circle and ignore him for awhile. One very good thing is that John doesn't hold a grudge and within 30 minutes his mood changes and he is happy again.
Don't you love that sideways glance of John's. He looks like he is saying, "Yeah, yeah, get on with it!"