I am back home in Japan and realize that I really didn't keep anyone informed about what my month in Indiana was like. I rarely had time alone to sit down and blog though I actually can't report that much was accomplished while I was there. I've got pictures (mostly baby pictures) and I did spend yesterday telling stories to Tetsu about my stay so I'll try to recap here.
We actually didn't get out of the house too much for the whole month that I was in Indiana. I think Luka and I walked down the road to a pond a couple of times but that was about it for my exercise. I did mention in my last post that I was getting exercise in other ways and so I decided to record my new routine in my bullet journal. Baby bouncing, Stair stepping, Deep waist bends, Room walking and Getting up and down from the floor.
On top of that, there was a lot of baby holding to give Leiya a break or to just let her take a nap.
I gained great confidence at putting a baby to sleep in my arms with just a lot of bouncing and a pacifier!
This is a practice that I didn't ever get the hang of... baby wrapping otherwise known as swaddling. I suppose it must be a common practice as even baby Jesus was swaddled, but I couldn't do it and it looked so uncomfortable for Taiga-kun, but he seemed to sleep better when he was wrapped up like a burrito so to each his own.By the way, Taiga's Chinese/Japanese characters were chosen. Tai 太 meaning mighty and gentle and Ga 河 meaning huge river. One of those characters is similar to one in Luka's name also so that was another deciding factor. Tetsu gave a lot of input to the choice of characters and many text messages flew over the ocean (and that Tai in Taiga's is also used in the Japanese translation of Pacific Ocean!) When all was explained in great detail to Tony, he made the deciding vote.
He isn't too thrilled to be sitting next to screaming Taiga in the car but he's just going to have to get used to that (or Taiga will have to get used to riding in the car.)
As you recall, Leiya set me on the task of making two baby quilts that she could give to her friends and so we made numerous trips to JoAnne's (about the only store I did ANY shopping in this trip!) When Luka was at pre-school and Leiya and Taiga were napping, I'd scurry off to the bedroom where Leiya had set up a sewing machine for me. She definitely needs a new sewing machine though!At my last post I showed the one quilt that I'd gotten made and then I started on the second... with new fabric from the original main fabric she'd chosen. Leiya chose to have a border added to this one and instead of doing stitch-in-the-ditch quilting around ALL the blocks like in the first quilt, I just quilted around the main blocks and then did some decorative stitching in the border. Leiya liked this quilt so much that she has decided to keep it for herself... and we went to JoAnne's AGAIN for her to choose MORE fabric for a new quilt for her friend! That is going to be my first project once I'm settled back in my sewing room in Japan. (I've still got jet-lag today.)
Luka was very interested in my sewing, both at the sewing machine and when I was hand quilting, so I made a cardboard sewing board for him to try on his own. I can't say that he loved this activity but he stayed at it for quite awhile...
Is there something strange about this photo? Yes! Taiga and Leiya are covered in leaves! Leiya and I had been chatting while I was quilting when Luka ran into the house all excited and happy and obviously wanted to share his joy at discovering something. He suddenly threw an armful of damp leaves up in the air... filling the room and covering his mother and brother in debris... and then he realized that maybe it hadn't been his greatest idea. After a stunned silence from all of us (Taiga didn't even wake up) Leiya calmly suggested he take his muddy shoes off and maybe outside things should be left outside... Luka agreed that might be so and quietly went to take off his shoes. Leiya whispers at me trying not to laugh "Quick! Take a picture!" and so I did!
Except for the one day of snow that we had before Taiga was born, we began to see the changes of spring arriving in Indiana. Trees started to blossom.
Squirrels visited us daily (one of my favorite things to do was to sit and quilt by the window and watch the birds and squirrels!)
I love the Indiana countryside!
For the last week or so in Indiana, I got it into my head that I should be speaking to Luka in Japanese as much as possible and Leiya and I switched to Japanese when speaking to him or each other, except when Tony was around or when Luka needed to be disciplined. He got pretty good at understanding what I was trying to get across to him and even began to mimic Japanese words. Leiya and I got the feeling that he thought of it as a puzzle to be solved... "What is Grandma Tani saying to me now?" I don't think Leiya can keep it up too much but maybe Luka will remember that with Jiji (Tetsu) and now Grandma Tani, he's going to have to understand a bit of Japanese... And what is this photo? In February Japan has an event when a parent will dress up as an ogre and the children will throw peanuts at him chanting "Out with the ogre! In with good luck!" I had brought a couple of paper ogre crowns (Luka wanted to be an ogre too) and instead of peanuts we had him throw bird seed at me. "Oni wa soto!" (Out with the ogre!) he said in his cute little voice. A couple of nights before I left, we had a tornado warning and though we were all in bed, I could hear the sirens around the neighborhood and pretty soon Leiya came upstairs to explain and said in case she got any tornado alerts on her phone the plan was that we were going to hide out in a closet sized bathroom near the garage which didn't have any windows. She took a mattress downstairs just in case but I didn't think much of it until about 10 minutes later I could HEAR the wind roaring at us!!! "Leiya! I think we'd better get into the bathroom!" The lights flickered off and I was not waiting around to see what would happen next! I pulled Luka out of his bed and lugged his weight downstairs (again, I don't know how many times this trip that I thought about how grateful I am that my hip was mended). Leiya was carrying Taiga and rounding up blankets and flashlights and water though Tony didn't think we were in any immediate danger. She and I chose to hunker down in the bathroom with the two children though and there we stayed for about an hour with her messaging back and forth to her neighbors... most of whom weren't too concerned but offered the use of their basements if the tornado hit... (How we'd make it across the lawn, I don't know.)
The days to go back to Japan draw near... The family seems to have established a routine and Taiga-kun with getting passed back and forth between mommy and daddy for awhile longer...I will miss being part of the exchange...Sunday morning before 5:00 AM, Tony drove me to the airport and I flew to a layover in Dallas/Fort Worth. After that it was a 13 hour flight back to Japan! But I have arrived safely though somewhat tired. But I did it!









It is so wonderful that you could be in IN for a month to enjoy your new grandson, to play with Luca, and to let Leyla sleep! You were certainly a great help to the family!
ReplyDeleteHope the jet-lag doesn't last for long but do be gentle with yourself while it lasts.
Love your sketches!!
Hugs!
Tony and the burrito make a cute photo - memory. Enjoyed this post a great deal. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteWhat a fun grandma you are! I'm so happy that you were able to make the trip and create precious memories. Thank you for sharing with us. 💙
ReplyDeleteTanya--so very happy you were able to spend precious time with your family and the grandchildren! Hope the jet lag clears up soon! Best wishes from Dawn/Sonya and Pat in Columbia City, Indiana.
ReplyDeleteWonderful photos, memories of a great family holiday.Love the baby wrap, swaddling is good.
ReplyDeleteOh My Gosh, I forgot that you were still in Indiana when those tornadic storms were occuring. The one you were hearing and the sirens were sounding for was probably the one that hit Winchester. I watched the radar as the system marched across the state.
ReplyDeleteTaiga is adorable! So glad that Luka is happy to be a big brother. Congratulations to all on the new addition.
Teresa F.
Thanks for the update - what a wonderful mother your daughter is! Love the leaves story!
ReplyDeleteCeci
You might not have left the house on many occasions but you did pack in a lot of events: sheltering from the tornado, bouncing with the baby, making two quilts, throwing bird seeds at the 'oni', being showered in dry leaves, sketching daffodils, teaching stitching and Japanese, swaddling babies, running up and down the stairs with laundry and most importantly spending lots of quality time with your loved ones.
ReplyDeleteI am so glad to see how well your hip has healed and hope you have no pain. Sleep off your jet-lag and start on that third quilt.
Queenie
Congratulations to all! So glad you got to spend time with Leiya, Tony, Luka and Taiga in Indiana. Wow did you have a busy, joyful time and double wow your hip held up so beautifully! Welcome back home, our best to you and Tetsu-san! Renata
ReplyDeleteGeorge grew up in Japan until 5, he now lives in England and picked up English quickly. Although he understands Japanese, he doesn’t want to speak it, or talk in Japanese to his Grandparents in Hiroshima. But Lily continues to speak in Japanese….
ReplyDeleteI love that you were able to be with Leiya and family when the baby was born. I'm sure it was a great help to her and very exciting for you! I'm glad I was younger when the grandbabies started coming - there is a lot of up and down and all over activity. But it was so much fun. So happy to hear that your hip is better and held out for your trip.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing you family moments with us.
WOW! What a lot of wonderful memories you have stored up with your time in the US this time. You are a blessed family!!
ReplyDeleteTaiga is well loved, what a joy to spend this time with your family Tanya. Luka is a loving big brother. Who needs to get out of the house when there are grand babies and quilts to sew? The photo of your drama looks such fun.
ReplyDeleteAs always thank you for sharing your life.
Gayle
Taiga looks well loved by his family. Luka will be an amazing big brother. Who needs to go out when there are grand babies to care for and quilts to sew?
ReplyDeleteThe photo of your drama looks like so much fun.
Tetsu and the animals will be happy to have you at home.
Thank you for sharing your days with us.
Gayle
Goodness, you did a lot, even if it didn't get written down!
ReplyDeleteHappy Easter !!!!
ReplyDeleteI am just catching up with your posts - this, after a few (or more!!) months of relocating from rural Kansas to our retirement new home on Lake Erie, In Cleveland, OH. Jan-March, I was diving back & forth through INDIANA between homes. I wish I had kept up w/ your posts: we could have met in person at some coffee shop in Indiana!
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ReplyDeleteTricia Webster Armstrong