Today is Boys' Day. My living room calendar has a cute picture on it this month.
Yesterday my neighbor, Mrs. Yano, called me just as I was sitting down to start sewing.
"What are you doing? Do you want to go buy some flowers?"
Mrs. Yano's joy is gardening. She and her husband have vegetable fields and in autumn they become chrysanthemum fields and Mrs. Yano supplies chrysanthemums to local markets. Mrs. Yano LIVES for the spring season and though she already has colorful flowers decorating her entryway, she is always willing to go buy more.
So off we went in her car and we visited a very large nursery with loads of flowers to pick and choose from.
HOWEVER...
I'm not much of a gardener. I look at all the flowers and think,
"How can I ever decide what to buy? I don't know what is seasonal or perennial. I don't know what likes shade and what likes sun. I don't know what wants to be planted in the ground and what likes pots."
Mrs. Yano says,
"Just buy what you like!"
But actually I liked the ready made pots of multi flowers. The expensive ones that someone had artistically arranged. Mrs. Yano pooh-poohed those.
"The fun is in imagining, choosing, making them grow!"
So I bought flowers... (surreptitiously looking at the ready made pots). And I sighed when I bought them and Mrs. Yano looked annoyed.
"Why are you looking all sad? Flowers are supposed to make you happy! I can't think of anything that excites me more. You look like something terrible is going to happen."
"I have no idea how to plant these... And within weeks they will probably die.... I'm not very good with flowers. I feel sorry for these poor plants coming to live at my house."
Mrs. Yano promised to help me and when we got home we dumped out the dead soggy planters that I'd once used and filled them with fresh dirt from Mrs. Yano's field and soil mixture bags. Mrs. Yano has a variety of different soil mixtures that she has researched and purchase from somewhere...

I stood there with my gloves on (I wanted to make a show that I was actually willing to participate in this planting experience) and watched as Mrs. Yano expertly divided plants into the three different planters I'd brought over. She instructed me on how to untangle roots as I planted but quickly pushed me aside as I was either too vigorously untangling or not untangling enough. She thought of color and height and added a bit of fertilizer as she went along. She decided I hadn't bought enough color variation and donated one of the new plants from her own nursery bag. And while she was at it, she dug up flowers and greenery from her own yard saying that the foliage might be green now but eventually there would be a pretty pink flower or a yellow one or whatever. (They all look like weeds to me.)

I transported my flower planters back to my house and they do look very lovely. Mrs. Yano came over in the evening to check and see if I'd watered them properly (I hadn't. They needed more water and not on the leaves please.)
Mrs. Yano is not the only one who is surprised at my ineptness about gardening. Tetsu often comments that for someone who likes nature so much I sure don't take much interest in gardening. It isn't the dirt that I don't like... It's the fact that there are no instruction books or patterns to go with these flowers when I buy them. I think I need to take a class...
In my defense I'd like to say that if I took Mrs. Yano to a fabric store and told her to pick out fabrics and told her to go make a quilt, that she would probably not show the same enthusiasm as she does for her flowers. I choose my colors and fabric patterns, I have an idea about what I want the final product to look like and I enjoy watching my quilts grow. Sort of like growing a garden I guess...
By the way, my blog friend Jenni reminded me that the Tokyo International Quilt Festival's deadline is coming up for participating in next year's Partnership Quilt project. It certainly isn't very well advertised because I've spent some time looking around the Internet for the official announcement (in either Japanese and English!) and can find nothing. I guess I'm not looking in the right places...
ANYWAY I pulled up an old photo that I took when I was at the festival this January and it says...

Next time's theme will be GARDEN
The block requirements have CHANGED from 20 centimeters to 15 centimeters in size (that's about 6 inches folks) and the deadline is July 31 a month earlier than previous years.
And in small print they are saying that the official announcement will be in June which seems a bit late to me...
So.... I wonder if gardening with fabric will be any easier than gardening in the dirt for me.