What started out as funny has driven me half batty and a bit weepy on the side. Cat problems.
Remember when Patora tried to escape from the cat house a few days ago? Well, Tetsu thought he had solved that problem and Patora and Toi went back to living in their house peacefully... For awhile. Then a couple of nights ago after feeding all the menagerie I heard some meowing out in the forest. Oh no! Not another stray! And I could hear Toi getting into the action too.
"Meow! Meow! MEEE--OW!!"
Big male cat noises (though all my cats are neutered and spayed) and I assumed a male cat was crossing our yard and Toi didn't like it.
The next morning when I went to feed Toi and Patora, no Patora. She had escaped again.
The good news was that when I opened the back door, Patora rushed into the house and made a bee-line for the cat house door. It must have been Patora that was out in the yard the night before and Toi didn't think that was fair or something. And I guess Patora didn't enjoy her nightly wanderings and wanted to be safely home.
BUT!!! Toi was having nothing to do with this strange feline.
"I do not know who you are. You are an intruder in my cat house. Out with you!"
Tetsu and I thought it funny. What a stupid cat that can't even recognize the only companion he's lived with for the past five years. Though there was a lot of spitting and yowling we decided to let them work out their problems alone and I left both of them in the cat house.
Throughout the day I could hear confrontations going on and occasionally I'd go and separate them, one to a higher level, one to the relative safety of the Styrofoam box (which they usually sleep in together.)
By afternoon I was beginning to think that it wasn't a matter of recognizing, Toi had decided that he didn't want to make up and be friends.
"Get out of my cat house you woman of the night. You went off playing with other rogues and I will never forgive you for that. Get out of my sight! I
refuse to live with you ever again!"
"Meow!! MEE-OW!!! MEEEEE-OOOWWWW!!!!"
In the evening when I was standing in the cat house wondering if these two needed to separated for the night, my next-door-neighbor stalked up to the fence and asked what was happening on my side.
"They've been making all this noise from last night. It sounds like a child is being beaten over here. I hope you can do something."
I apologized and made my decision that Toi and Patora wouldn't be spending the night in the cat house. But they couldn't be put in a cage together either... This was when I started to lose it.
I left both Toi and Patora TOGETHER in the Japanese room (windows closed) and they yowled at each other from different spots in the room, occasionally rushing at each other so that books and papers and pencil stands were knocked to the floor. What a mess! In more ways than one. On the other side of the door two of the other four felines (Cleo and Chip) were frantic at the noise too and hiding out under the chairs and sofa. The delicate balance of my cat family had been thrown into confusion in less than a day!
When Tetsu got home he just tossed Mi into the cat room with the arguing cats and hoped that she could act as mediator. Mi seemed happy to take either side in the confrontation and went from the top of the bookshelf with Patora to under the table with Toi very happily.
Yesterday was more of the same but with Tetsu home most of the day he made the decisions about when to intervene. We talked about making a new cat house farther away from our neighbor but that doesn't solve the problem of meowing and fighting. I really don't have another spare room to separate Toi and Patora though one idea is to turn our bathroom over to one of them... Or I could just open the cat house door and let them go out and figure out life on their own...
This is crazy! Why does my life have to get so upset by these dumb cats?! And with all I do for them!!! You would think they would at least TRY and make my life easier!!!
Unfortunately the photo above is NOT Patora an Toi. The two love birds here are Cleo and Mi. At least those two were happy to be with each other yesterday.
Today Toi and Patora have called a truce and are pointedly ignoring each other from different levels in the cat house.